Ugh. Dating is stressful! To me at least – half of the time it feels like listening to someone speaking a language you don’t know and trying to understand them.
One thing for sure – I was right to defer the final judgement until there was more clarity – and didn’t initiate any questioning rounds myself.
JD picked up his trailer last night – and the way he was all urgency about it made me wonder if he was about to end the whole thing once he recovered it.
Turned out he wasn’t at all. Moreover, to my utter surprise his behaviour towards me hasn’t changed at all – still caring and attentive. Now I feel stupid. As in: okay, I guess I took it too far in the gloom land – just like I used to take it into the happy land in the previous cases. Interesting!
So the conclusion from it all is – I did the right thing – when in doubt, wait it out!
PS He’s not going to CA and we are getting together tomorrow – at his suggestion.